Barnegat Teen on a Mission to Honor Veterans
By Eric Englund
January 15, 2025
When Vincent Lorenzo of Barnegat Township went trick or treating this past Halloween, he didn't pick one of the more popular costumes on the market. Rather, he was proud to wear military fatigues. It was a tribute to his grandfather, the late James Beninato, who was awarded three Purple Hearts during his four-year tour of Vietnam.
"Unfortunately, I never got to meet him because he passed away before I was born," said Vincent, 13. "But he is one of the reasons I have a strong appreciation for our military."
His mother, Marissa Lorenzo, said her son's keen interest in veterans came about when he was 4.
"At the time, we took a trip to Washington," she said. "He wanted to see the White House, but there were no tours available, so he was a little sad. But we drove around to see the Washington Monument, the Capitol, the memorials and Arlington National Cemetery. After that trip, he wanted to know about our history, and that's when he learned more about the people in the military service."
She said when her son was 7, he emptied his piggy bank to buy a floral arrangement to honor a local veteran, Laurie Roberts, who had done 11 tours of duty with the Army.
"And since then he has done much more to honor veterans."
She said that for the past three years, Vincent has been giving veterans handmade Christmas cards and gift cards to a local restaurant, to show his thanks and appreciation for all they have done.
"He started raising money by playing a saxophone on the corner of his street. There he met a group of local men called the Nam Knights of America Motorcycle Club, Tri-Base Chapter, which honor American veterans and police officers who have lost their lives in the line of duty," she said. "They were so touched by him that they have donated money to him the past three years so that he can reach more veterans.
"He also made handmade bracelets and sold them at a local salon in Manahawkin and used a portion of his profits to buy restaurant gift cards. When he went to purchase the gift cards at the Olive Garden, they also gave him $50 extra to put towards his giving. Vincent saves his money all year long so that he can bring a smile to veterans' faces during the Christmas season."
This year, she said Vincent got the help of three special friends to make more than 200 Christmas cards.
"They were so happy to help him make the cards that they wanted to help him hand them out as well. Vincent spent countless hours walking through stores and parking lots, looking for veterans. He had the honor to thank and shake the hands of so many. He also had the pleasure of a few hugs, heard hundreds of stories and saw many tears. Vincent is very passionate about his mission."
Vincent targeted large businesses such as Costco, BJ's, Walmart, ShopRite and Target in his mission.
"You can usually spot the veteran wearing a special cap or jacket indicating what branch of the military they served," said his mother.
Vincent received a special honor when he was 10 and Thy Cavagnaro, co-founder of Thanking Vietnam Veterans, had him serve as keynote speaker for the 2022 Vietnam Veterans Day tribute in Barnegat.
"Vietnam vets like my grandfather and you are my heroes," Lorenzo told the crowd at the Frederick Watts Gazebo Park. "Some people think heroes fly in the sky to save the day, but I believe a hero is someone special who risks their lives for others. They help to keep our country safe and protect others from harm. A hero is someone that is brave and willing to sacrifice themselves for the greater good. A hero is you!"
The teen received a standing ovation, and following the ceremony, several veterans gave him commemorative coins from similar events.
"Meeting someone like Vincent comes once in a lifetime," said Cavagnaro. "He's truly an inspirational soul, with his devotion to veterans shining right from the core. When children older than he are more focused on what may be troubling them right before their eyes, Vincent doesn't forget history and how invaluable our veterans' contributions to our free world have been. This is why I just had to make him our keynote speaker. And he rocked the house, to boot!"